Hi, my name is Jessy. I’m an undergraduate of a Nigerian
University. I really need your advice on a certain problem I have.
I met my boyfriend through a cousin of mine at the cinema.
We (my cousin and I) went to the cinema during the festive period to see one of
the blockbusters that premiered at the time.
We got there earlier, bought our tickets then got drinks
while we waited. Suddenly, I saw a tall, handsome figure chatting with another
dude. I couldn’t help but stare. He was perfect.
My cousin noticed that I was distracted. She called me up
several times to get my attention, I’d look at her and then my eyes would stray
back to its object of interest. Then, something happened. He was coming towards
us! I could feel my heart thump hard.
My shock heightened when this guy gave my cousin a peck on
the cheek! She knew him?? Well, I waited for the introduction which eventually
happened. He kissed my hand in acknowledgement and I obviously blushed. We got
talking for a while and I found out he was there to see same movie as ours.
Hours later, after the movie, we exchanged numbers and said
our goodbyes. That day birthed a blissful relationship between us. It blossomed.
He agreed to my “NO SEX” rule. I felt like I’ve got it all in one man.
One cool Saturday afternoon, he tried making love to me. I
resisted and reminded him that I wasn’t up for it. He erupted like a volcano
filled with hot molten magma. He saw no reason why we shouldn’t have sex we if
we loved each other. He further said it was necessary that we have sex in order
to check compatibility. Truthfully, this made no sense to me and I told him so.
He ranted and raved. He got to the bedroom door, turned and threatened
our relationship if I don’t have a second thought at my decision. He slammed
the door behind him leaving me stunned.
What do I do? I love this guy so much. Is sex really
necessary in a relationship before marriage? Please guys, help me out! Do I
succumb? Or stick to what I believe and end the relationship?
M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dear....dat guys doesn't love Ʊ Α̲̅πϑ Ʊ shudnt give up U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ values bcus of an apparent love..If he loves Ʊ @ all,then he shud wait Α̲̅πϑ И♡T pressurize Ʊ.dere isn't anything like test of compatibility. I advice Ʊ break up ѠĪŦ him b4 he rapes Ʊ one day...one trial ɪ̣̝̇ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ enof...run oooooo.
ReplyDeleteBabe don't be a learner.....the moment Ʊ sleep ѠĪŦ him Ʊ will see his true colour..,na break up sharp sharp....besides ₪☺ man ɪ̣̝̇ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ worth U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ virginity b4 marriage ₪☺ matter ♓☺w much love he professes...if he loves Ʊ S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ much he should pay U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ brideprice....else 4get him....better people will come U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ way
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